Of old boyfriends and neverending work

July 27, 2008 maydarling

So, I’m sitting here at my desk, measuring away on a Sunday (and I just LOVE that!) and flipping through the fatosphere. And it got me to thinking about my…hm. He’s rather uncategorable. (is that a word?)

I say sort-of because we never really got to bf/gf status – through no fault of my own.

So, I hadn’t spoken to this cat in about a month. (note: we have friendly correspondence)

It was fine with me. I had been out, doing me, living the single girl life. (Note to self, when relatively good looking Scotsmen offer to buy champagne, say NO.)

So one day, S. & I were on the F train to Brooklyn to find me a dress and I was laughing and generally being the cool chick that I aspire to be. We get off of the train, do our shopping and head off to Park Slope for dinner. I decide to check my phone because I perpetually keep it on vibrate. I have messages, no surprise there.

The surprise came in that it was *him*. He had been sitting behind S & I on our same train car. And it so happened that he saw us when we got off.

Basically it was messages saying, “oh my god, you were on my train, you look fantastic, fabulous, your hair looks great, you’ve got amazing legs, yadda yadda yadda.”

And from there our friendliness has somewhat escalated. And we’re in a weirdo in-between dating/not dating stage. I wouldn’t mind more, but yet again he’s proving elusive.

The trials of being a single girl in the city.

I seem to attract the complicated men. Don’t get me wrong, I love the complicated guys – they make good conversation and tend to have awesome taste in music.

I just wish the game were a little less complicated.

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